Women: stay at home or work?…Men: stay at home moms or working moms?

Women/mothers: If money was not an issue in your home, would you choose to work or dedicate time spent in the office or on the job, to your home?

Men, what would you perfer your wives to do. ( anything that makes her happy is not a sactisfactory answer ).

Stay at home. I’ve been an at-home-mum for 14 years, I dont think theres anything wrong with working mums so long as the balance is right, i dont think its fair to work so much that you only see your child at breakfast and bed time and weekends, its like your a part time parent, I know thats necassary for some people due to finances but I dont think its ideal way to raise a child.

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12 Comments

  1. macchialinameow says:

    I do not know because I am not a mother yet so I can not decide!
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  2. Vanessa M says:

    i would choose to stay home and take care of my family. make sure they had a healthy dinner, clean house to live in, etc.
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  3. lebronjames6934 says:

    I want my women to be a stay at home wife, i would want her to stay home relax and enjoy life
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  4. Sparx says:

    Stay at home. I’ve been an at-home-mum for 14 years, I dont think theres anything wrong with working mums so long as the balance is right, i dont think its fair to work so much that you only see your child at breakfast and bed time and weekends, its like your a part time parent, I know thats necassary for some people due to finances but I dont think its ideal way to raise a child.
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  5. sulfurbutterfly says:

    If money wasn’t an issue, I’d love to stay home with my baby boy and my husband; unfortunately, my husband has epilepsy and not working is not an option.
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  6. Osvaldo G says:

    just sad that woman that stay home call taking care of the kids puting a dvd in the dvd player, call dinner a 5$ macdonald junk fest, and call sex a 2 minute show. and over time the woman gets fat and a mess no wonder to many men cheat on their wifes ( wife more like house cat ) if i take care of my wife and shes better keep a good body shape and MUST enjoy sex not prevend to and for the kids part i dont whant winny brats telling me latter YOu screed my life!! i am 17 and i seen this shit go araund all the time
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  7. Gina C says:

    After the children start school…pursuing a career is the best bet. Women should always be self-sufficient. Working outside the home is a constant growth experience and it’s GOOD for us to grow!
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  8. elizabeth g says:

    i am a stay at home mom and i have been for 2yrs now. i have been married for 17yr now and have always worked.i find that when i stay home my children do much better in school. i have 3 children ,
    a 15 yr old – 10th grade (started school late)
    a 14yr old – 10th grade
    and a 9 yr old – 4th grade
    when i worked they were all struggling with grades and were not doing anything at home . now my 9yr old and my 14yr old have A B honor roll and my 15yr old is right there too and he plays high school football . i think i choose the right thing
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  9. in_need_of_time says:

    I enjoy cooking and cleaning more then my partner. I suppose I would prefer my wife to enjoy her life and the romance between us. And we take it in turns or work together to cook / clean.
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  10. monte says:

    God gave women brains so that they may be competitive in this world. Women are capable of doing so many things, but the ball lies squarely in their court, the choise is soley their, they may choose wo work or stay at home. I prefer that they work. Staying at home is redunduncy in that they ‘l be perfoming the same same duties daily. working out there brings about aborader view of life, many challenges, broadens the mind. Working is also healthy mentally, so women should work.
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  11. lilcutie244 says:

    well there are two arguments to this.
    the first one is that a long time ago woman were like servants, they cooked cleaned, nursed the children and took care of them, and that was all they could do, which is wrong. they had no say in anything!
    now i think woman are starting to have a voice and being heard.
    If they have the potential they should work to build a better commmunity, and celebrate their feminisum

    The second argument is that many people even now are still against women working because now the woman are letting go of their families. Nannies are taking care of the kids, teaching them, having the moments of fun with the children that a mother is supposed to have.
    wworking woman are also starting to forget their husbands and house coming home VERY late, not making dinner….
    so many woman hate tghe working women and many men also dont like their wives to work.

    But in my opinion i think women should work, i mean if a man could just switch spots with a woman they would go crazy from the work and bored ness. being a stay at home mom IS like a job, but the children are the bosses lol.
    anyways i think women should work but when they are blessed with children should take a few years off and then continue because they cant steal their babies from the joy and happiness of being wwith their mother.
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  12. Glenda says:

    mix of both. i love spending every second of every day w my daughter. im what you call a work horse. i love to work. thats why its a mix of both
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